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Alejandro Martín Gómez's avatar

Love this Max! Keep up the great work :)

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Erica Shugart's avatar

Thank you, Max. Today is my 4-year old's second day of school. He's never been dropped off anywhere with anyone besides family until yesterday (although it wasn't a "drop-off"). I have several friends who homeschool their children, and although I considered this a viable option for the first several years of my son's life, I have decided to do it this way, gently, with a Montessori program down the street from us and see how it all goes. It's very difficult because I am also extremely critical of education, vaccines, and just the idea of school. I see it as an arm of a grotesquely dysfunctional society, stratified upside down with crazy priorities in place. If I chose homeschool, I'd be essentially mimicking an imaginary "village" that is not at all in place. I'd be supported by my son's dad and other mother's who are already stretched thin, and whom many I struggle to relate to due to different class backgrounds. I wouldn't have the bandwidth to write, engage the larger community, do activism, etc, which I think is invaluable for my son to see modeled for him. I want him to see his mother engaging the world beyond our little home. Although many lovely souls are doing homeschool, the interpersonal realities of groups of mother's I've experienced to be like an adult version of the sorority's I avoided in college. This isn't talked about and is also something I'm particularly sensitive to. The "group think" and competitive "supermom" antics can feel oppressive.

May we live again with our young, elders, dying, newborns, mothers, fathers, grand-parents, cousins, non-blood related, child-free, initiated teenagers, and all the Earth communities in co-creation, regeneration, and peace. May there be true community and collaboration for our days with Earth. It will never be a utopia, but it can get a hell of a lot better than this!

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